Freitag, 25. November 2016

Mistress Laetitia and her BDSM Academy

Mistress Laetitia
Mistress Laetitia is a professional dominatrix from Stuttgart, Germany. Once in a month the attractive lady with a self-confident and fresh charisma travels to Munich where she can be encountered as a Guest Lady. Furthermore, she imparts knowledge to participants of her BDSM Academy. A conversation about serious changes in the BDSM scene, her love for electrostimulation and BDSM seminars.

Interview with Mistress Laetitia


Lady Sas:
Dear Laetitia, you work as a dominatrix in the Stuttgart-based studio Centric and in the Munich-based studio Penthouse Elegance. How did you become a Mistress?


Mistress Laetitia:
Very early in my life I have already felt an inclination that was difficult to name. First, I have read everything that fell into my hands and gradually met like-minded people. Ten years ago, the possibilities of informing oneself on the Internet were quite limited. I had the incredible luck that I was able to take my first steps in BDSM in my private life. Well, from that point on there was no going back. I think if you once truly lived out BDSM you won’t be able to stop easily.

I looked for a studio in Stuttgart to begin with. From the first moment on I have only done what fitted my personal inclinations. That gave me the freedom to refuse session requests. With so many facets of BDSM I don’t have to be into all of them. To respect my boundaries does not exclude staying curious, impartially scrutinizing things and always see if it thrills me. Consequently, my personal framework is able to change and develop along with myself. This mindset led me to what I am today. In every session I can draw on unlimited resources. I’m a dominatrix with body and soul.


Lady Sas:
What is it about BDSM that attracts you the most?
Mistress Laetitia:
Combining plain, pure pain with passion. I hate nonsensical brutality. I love sessions in which my counterpart is with me mentally, allows himself to be led towards his limits and trustfully explores new boarders with me. It never ceases to thrill me when I see that he endures the pain for me. But I also enjoy to enter the world of a specific fetish together with my slaves – even with no pain involved.
If we agree upon a framework in advance, I nevertheless like to sense potential turns the journey could take during the session. Often new fantasies step forth spontaneously or chasms open up. To change the direction of the session in conformity with my guest and to experience the unexpected turns the session into a passionate adventure.

Mistress Laetitia


Lady Sas:
Google told me that the name “Laetitia” is derived from the Latin and means “joy, cheerfulness”. Does this apply to you? Why did you choose that name in particular?
Mistress Laetitia:
Back then I indeed chose a name that represents pure vitality. Also, I wanted to stand out against very common names. And the name had to suit me of course. I’m often surprised how many guests know about the meaning of my name.


Lady Sas:
Do you notice any differences between the guest from Stuttgart and from Munich?
Mistress Laetitia:
The guests from Munich bring along an additional portion of freshness. They seem to be more open to new things and improvisations. As a Guest Lady I can’t take everything with me in my luggage. But that was never a problem. If something’s missing we simply do it differently. No problem, as long as we’re having fun and pleasure.


Mistress Laetitia about trends in the BDSM scene


Lady Sas:
You work as a dominatrix for ten years now. What developments have you observed on the dominant side and on the submissive side respectively? Did the requests of your clients change over the years?
Mistress Laetitia:
Both sides have changed massively. But this is certainly a reflection of general changes in people. We, who practice BDSM, are, in the end, only a mirror of our society. A lot of people live in a certain superficiality nowadays. They are distracted and always busy with multiple things simultaneously. Even a session is just squeezed into a free spot in the agenda. In the past, people took more time for everything and were able to enjoy things. Clients had much more own fantasies and ideas back then. Now, due to overstimulation, there’s often only emptiness that the dominatrix is expected to fill.

Some sessions ceased to exist, because certain situations, that provoked lust, no longer exist in that way. On the one hand this is certainly a blessing. But on the other hand role plays like a teacher who whips the student’s hands, a governess and her pupil, the flagellant, or real nylons and bodices are no longer in demand either. What is not part of our everyday life can’t trigger fantasies. Persons commanding respect have changed in real life, and with this change the role plays changed too.


Lady Sas:
One thing you like is electrostimulation. Do you actually test these devices on yourself first to get a feeling for it?
Mistress Laetitia:
I try pretty much everything on myself first. Only that way, I can trigger little fireworks in a fine-tuned manner. If you don’t know what you are able to provoke with your equipment, a lot of the pain and pleasure gets lost. Or your play partner may perceive it as a turn-off.
Especially people saying electricity is no thrill for them change their minds when I tried it on them. I give a try to many things in order to get more out of my devices. I have clients that followed me from my first day as a dominatrix and still we manage to find new fun things.


Lady Sas:
Let’s assume a client has never tried electrostimulation. He is curious but at the same time afraid of it. How do you explain to him what is to be expected?
Mistress Laetitia:
It’s the same with everything I do with my clients. I need to gain his trust. I need him to place himself in my hands. With electrostimulation, I explain to him that I will start slow and increase intensity only gently. And, very important, it is not always about painful intensity. In most cases I use my device in a sensual, exciting way. The human body provides many potential varieties and I decide how I use them.


Lady Sas:
Are there any apartments to rent for private couples in the Stuttgart-area that you can recommend?
Mistress Laetitia:
I have never been to one. Thus, I can’t recommend anything.
Mistress Laetitia

Mistress Laetitia’s BDSM Academy


Lady Sas:
You share your knowledge within the scope of your own BDSM Academy. Who is the target group and what is there to learn?
Mistress Laetitia:
The BDSM Academy is addressed to everyone who wants to experience BDSM and who has shortcomings in one area or another. My clients are lady’s that want to acquire substantiated knowledge before entering the professional world as a dominatrix. Lady’s that have a private play partner but are insecure in some things. Or couples that switch and are overwhelmed in certain situations. In recent times, also men who want to live out their fantasies with their wives come to me and ask for guidance.

My seminars are organized in such a way that every seminar can be booked individually, or – depending on your state of knowledge – as a complete education. In the latter, the most common SM practices are summarized, such that everybody, even without prior knowledge, is able to guide his partner through a session after completing the courses. Sources of danger and how to do things the right way are taught in my Academy. Captivations, techniques of beating, and sterile clinic plays are all taught in my courses – of course, as mentioned before, also individually bookable. I have subjects on which I show everything and on which my clients can exercise under my supervision.


Lady Sas:
How are customers responding to your offer?
Mistress Laetitia:
I have offered my seminars for exactly one year now and I’m very happy to see that my expectations are met. I have already made my annual plan for 2017 and that says it all. I’m also surprised by the fact that clients of all age groups and of different professional backgrounds are taking part in my courses and are in very good terms with each other. BDSM and their desire to learn more about it brings them together and it works! Additionally, everyone benefits from the knowledge of the others.


Lady Sas:
What would you advise young dominatrices-to-be who wish to work professionally in a studio?
Mistress Laetitia:
Make sure that the studio suits you, always stay true to your own rules, and always adhere to your inclinations and limits. Do your sessions with respect and attention towards your guests and towards your job. Be aware of the responsibility you have to your clients and to yourself.

Practice slaves wanted


Lady Sas:
For your courses you are frequently seeking new subjects on which exercises can be performed. Is this for free? What prerequisites have to be met?
Mistress Laetitia:
Yes, it is for free. I have, however, a fixed team to deploy. So, you can’t just visit me and take part as a subject. Especially, my seminars are not just free sessions. My subjects have to be experienced, reliable, and they have to suit me and my attitude towards BDSM. I always meet new applicants to get to know them personally.


Lady Sas:
Is there something that annoys you in being a professional dominatrix?
Mistress Laetitia:
I can’t stand impudence, insolences and poor hygiene. Almost everyone gets a second chance, but at the worst I also abort sessions or refuse to assign further appointments with these persons. Trust is something that can’t be restored after someone has played with it.

Mistress Laetitia

Lady Sas:
Do you have other passions besides BDSM? Hobbies?
Mistress Laetitia:
I have a gorgeous, self-designed garden that gives me immense satisfaction. Furthermore, I’m interested in healing stones, like to meditate, and read a lot.


Lady Sas:
Dear Laetitia, please tell us about your plans for the future. 
Mistress Laetitia:
I will further promote my still young BDSM Academy and enjoy every session with my clients. With my monthly visits in Munich I am fully stretched with this already. Nevertheless, I will constantly sound out what suits me and what gives me pleasure. No matter what, my top priority will always be to enjoy what I am doing.

Lady Sas:
Dear Laetitia, thank you for your time.



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