Montag, 21. März 2016

Warsaw Prison by Lady Daria

Warsaw Prison: the Wardens
Warsaw Prison is the latest BDSM-project by Lady Daria from Warsaw. In this interview Lady Daria takes the time to explain in detail what Warsaw Prison is all about. 

Lady Sas:  Dear Daria, congratulations, you have opened Warsaw Prison. Can you tell us what it is all about?
Lady Daria: Thank you. Warsaw Prison was an idea, which was from some time in my head. I love the roles associated with interrogation. A great pleasure for me is to jail people, break and torture them. I am very good at it and my arrived guests can feel it and see it. They know it is real and it is serious. At the end it is a prison.

Lady Sas: What makes Warsaw Prison special and unique?
Lady Daria:  I think few things. First – an idea. Warsaw Prison was deeply thought out. It is specific proposal for people to whom imprisonment is exciting. They have to fulfill in it. All details are written on my website so my guests know exactly what they should expect. This is Warsaw Prision advantage. My team is professional. From logistic site everything must be very good. 
My guest is picked up from airport by my driver, taken to the studio and after session taken back to the airport. During session in a proper time meal is served. I am taking into account food preferences such as vegetarianism. Studio is opened also for people with some health problems like diabetes. Giving medicaments to my prisoner after receiving the guidance from him is part of my responsibility and I fully accept it. I don’t want to refuse to someone due to health problems. I also have in my cells an emergency button. My prisoner must feel safe. Another difference in my Warsaw Prison is a fact that  I organize only long time sessions. To fulfill concept time is essential. Few hours session is not enough.

Warsaw Prison: an important part is the mind

In Warsaw Prison we are not doing only BDSM. For us an important part is mind. We give orders, tasks which many people can ask:- WHY?- it is nothing to do with BDSM, but those tasks affect mind, kills ego and routine. Prisoner must be mentally broken, uncertain, wick. He must become OUR. We put a great emphasis on the psychological approach. Not every studio does it. For me the most important aspect of BDSM is what is going on in our minds. I think brain  is the place when everything has the beginning. And also human.
My crew – three fantastic girls. Like me they feel good in imprisonment environment. They love it.  For them BDSM is an important part of their lives. They have many years  of experience . They have seen a lot, done a lot and still take pleasure from BDSM. If they have an opportunity to break someone, torture this is what give them satisfaction.
Many people support me. My driver, my carpenter, photographers. They are with me. I can count on them. That is why everything looks good.
Being professional is my motto. My job and my studio are my whole life, my passion, my everything. I have few targets for the future. I want to develop and expand Warsaw Prison and because I am stubborn you can expect I will do it. I want WP bigger, with more excitements.

Warden Daria

Lady Sas: Where is the difference between Warsaw Prison and your Lady Daria BDSM Studio?
Lady Daria: WP and Studio is based in the same place. This is the same building. Sessions are done in the industrial studio. We’ve got also washroom. Amethyst studio is not a  part of the WP and is separated from it.

I have to explain differences between Warsaw Prison and my Lady Daria Studio Domination.
1. - my website. Diverse offer. Sessions for beginners, regular sessions (1h, 2h, 4h and so on  till 11h), all day session and intense slave training with more than one Dom Lady.
2. - Warsaw Prison website
WP is a very specific project. We play within prison environment. We have interrogation, sentence announcement, imprisonment. Role paly is from the beginning discussed and accepted from both sides and it cannot be changed. It won’t be sissy training or teacher role play. Our customer is prisoner. His day will be planned e.g.: time for meal, time for rest, time for hygiene or time to be chained. That is why Warsaw Prison is not a place for everyone. Definitely it won’t be a nice adventure for someone who’s got no experience and cannot accept strict rules.

Sessions within are more universal and flexible. Plenty of role play, multiplicity and possibilities. People with small or no experience (or different one) can find something suited for them.
Another difference between Warsaw Prison and Lady Daria Studio Dom is time limit. Within Warsaw Prison project I accept only minimum 24h session-day without accommodation. With short time limit I cannot accomplish tasks such as: interrogation, sentence announcement, imprisonment, punishments. To do it well we need time.

Warsaw Prison – a kind of OWK?

Lady Sas:  Can one compare Warsaw Prison with OWK the famous Other World Kingdom? Where are the similarities, where are the differences.
Lady Daria: I fully understand that I will not avoid from such comparisons. Warsaw Prision is a place where we have a few Ladies, strict rules and aims. Everyone from outside can see those two things as a something pretty much similar. In reality are more differences then similarities.
Our Warsaw Prison is not big. It is based in home sized building. We have not many Ladies or working staff. We take only one prisoner and we are focused only of him. We don’t have to share our attention with other ones. That means more pleasure, more emotions. He is our main target.

Warsaw Prison: Lady Officer Daria

How it works at Warsaw Prison

I have to say I have never been in OWK. It is hard to talk about their organization and rules. I rather prefer to talk how it works in my Warsaw Prison: I am all the time present at all meetings with or without my Ladies Officers. This is my place and my environment.  I am the person who’s taking first contact with prisoner (e-mails, letters).  I am taking responsibility for many aspects of this special relation. My prisoner must trust us. It has nothing to do with lack of confidence to my Ladies Officers. It is all about psychological comfort of my prisoner. Me and he has knowledge about the limits and agreements. He needs to feel safe. My Ladies Officers are not all the time 24h a day. We don’t  live together. During the night I am alone in the building.
I am far from the OWK legend. It would be nice if someone will have the same nice feelings about my WP as OWK, but I have ambitions to build my own ,,brand’’ and my own history.

Lady Sas: Speaking of OWK. The Czech OWK-Ladies mostly had poor language skills. Most of the slaves  from abroad didn’t get any word. In my eyes this was an annoying point. How is the English of your Officers? Do they speak any other languages?
Lady Daria: I am with prisoners. In that case my language skills are important. I am not native speaker, but I speak English fluently also I’ve been learning German, but because I had no contact with this language for long time I forgot a lot, but I can understand many things.
My Ladies Officers speak English without problems. They are not as good as me, but no worries; any problem I can solve it.
Sometimes as a punishment for prisoner we use our native Polish language and he must understand what is all about, but it is very rare.

Programs at Warsaw Prison

Lady Sas:  Can you give us quick summary about the programs at Warsaw Prison?
Lady Daria:  It is not an easy task to summarize 5 imprisonment programs, because every one has got different targets, purposes.
One common goal is interaction on the mind and body.
Of course every program represent different interaction methods after which prisoner response, react (sometimes  in extreme way - breaking point).

I understand perfectly that we have people who prefer body pleasure than mind. For them program 1 (BDSM activities) and 3 (heavy torture and CP) will be perfect fitted. These programs contain pain, fear, pressure. Prisoner loses his independence, confidence, dignity. He becomes our toy. Sometimes he must cross his limits.
All aspects are very interesting. We watch him, his weaknesses. We talk what we can do more. We build a climate of fear. We are always looking for his breaking point. We know many methods how to achieve it. Body and mind tortures. Mixture of pain and pleasure. Proportions depends on prisoner.

Some people prefer action on their minds. For them we have program 2 (breaking psyche), 4 (bondage, isolation) and 5 (drill and routine).
Their aim is to build extreme emotions such as anger, frustration, cry, breaking weaknesses. Our prisoners are surprised how non-invasive actions in the long period of time may affect their minds.
This is for them the most exciting. For me balancing on the verge of breaking a prisoner, watching his pain and pushing him further and further over his limits. Games with our minds, wills, bodies gives me real pleasure. It can be very surprising for both sides (me and him). The end result as well.

WP: opened since December 2015

Lady Sas:  Why did you open Warsaw Prison? How did you come up with the idea?
Lady Daria:  I had this idea in my head at least a year. I know what I like and what kind of role play I want to do. Interrogations, forced confessions, sentencing always excited me. So I thought it is the best to go this way and combine business with pleasure.

Lady Sas: Warsaw Prison is open for 2 or 3 months now. How are the first reactions?
Lady Daria: WP has been opened in 13th of December 2015. First reactions were and still are positive. Even I am surprised. I wasn’t expect such publicity. From the beginning through my website and adverbs on Fetlife I received many congratulations from all over the world.

Lady Sas: On your website you write: ,,You will be thought positions, addressing me and my Officers and other proper behaviours’’. I am curious: In what kind of position and in which way is an Officer addressed?
Lady Daria: This is about the position which I demand. For example the position of which must be taken when we enter (me and my Ladies Officers) to the cell. Also we teach how to march, turn left or right. In my prison must be order and strict rules. My prisoners must be perfect, meet my expectations. They have to know what to do, how and when. I hate to repeat myself. I require maximum effort and concentration. If the prisoner is inaccurate he must be punished. The same rules during the conversation. For my questions prisoner responds in complete sentences finishing Warden or Officer. Only this form I accept.

Solitary Box in Warsaw Prison

Lady Sas: What is the idea behind the Solitary Box?
Lady Daria: Of course isolation. Solitary box is a place where prisoner stays a long time. We would not achieve anything within 20/30 minutes time. It must be 4, 5 hours or longer. Inside solitary box there is nothing. It is dark, quiet place and because somebody else decide when prisoner will be released he lose track of time and control. Closing him into this place I am cutting off  his contact with outside world. For some prisoners it is a time when they can take rest, to calm down, but for some of them their imagination starts working and it becomes a real nightmare. Inside this cell prisoner is alone with no support. This experience is quite scary. Of course just in case we have an emergency button, but it can be used only in an emergency situation. In that moment our response is immediate. If I want to give to someone a real mental pain during his isolation I switch on an annoying sound. It is very painful psychologically. This is the aim.

Lady Sas:  You also offer water torture. What’s about the safety? Isn’t this dangerous?
Lady Daria: At the moment I cannot offer full water torture technics so prisoner take small risk and everything is under control. Only dunking in bucket or aiming the stream of the water while prisoner washes. We are in the process of building dedicated dunking device, but we need some time. This is special device and it needs to be done well. I have good and professional team of workers so I don’t worry about the final result. More details soon on my website.

Lady Sas:  How is the room temperature in Warsaw Prison? Do the prisoners have to freeze?
Lady Daria: The temperature in the Studio is suitable for prisoners for those the only clothing is penis cage. As you can see on the pictures room no 1 and 2 have large radiators. In the bathroom we have 3 radiators. Normal temp in studio is between 22/26 degrees Celsius. That means the temperature for our guests is suitable. One thing is important. During an intense playground  heat can be a problem. We need to control it as well. Of course someone can sa  it is ,,too comfy’’, prisoner suppose to be broken, frozen. My answer is don’t worry. Soon we open that kind of cell.

Lady Officer at Warsaw Prison

Lady Sas: In the prison there is a nice washroom. What is the concept behind it? Is the water cold?
Lady Daria: Our washroom is the place where prisoner is washed and subjected to enemas. Prisoner must have harsh conditions and must be clean. Idea is simple. Taking care of hygiene and prisoner humiliation. We are stripping him from his intimacy. The same thing with enema. It is very degrading when you have to defecate in front of the commenting Ladies. 
You asked me about water temperature. We prefer hot, but there are 2 exceptions: When we determine the conditions of the agreement via an e-mail; example: prisoner wants to be washed in cold water at least one time. Second when prisoner loses his rights to be showered with hot water. 
Few words about enema technics. For this purpose water has got body temperature and pressure is small. Very important. We never use cold water for this practice.

Lady Officers don't accept body worship

Lady Sas: On your website you write that is not possible to worship the bodies of the Officers. Does this mean that it is not possible to kiss and lick the shoes and to kiss the bottom of the Ladies?
Lady Daria: Yes. It is true. Neither me or my Ladies Officers don’t accept body worship. We just don’t like it. For us more important are respect, obedience, physical and mental submission. If prisoner likes leather - ok we can wear leather clothes, if prisoner likes  latex – ok we can wear latex, if he likes gloves – we can wear gloves, but that’s everything what we can offer. Prisoner can kiss our hands, sniff our whips or lick our shoes, but these are not his main duties and aim.

Lady Sas: When I look at your Crew I have the feeling that the Officers are all true sadists. Does it make sense for a fetishist with low pain level to apply?
Lady Daria: I am glad you think so. That means our photographer caught their real nature. Yes it is true. They are sadists. Inflict pain on someone gives them pleasure. We’ve got good team. We specialize in different areas, but we understand each other perfectly. I said this before: Warsaw Prison is for certain type of people. Fetishists will not be fit to this place. We will not do anything against our nature.

Lady Sas: What do you say to a slave who is fascinated by Warsaw Prison, but is afraid to come?
Lady Daria:  We are all cautions when we have to change our environment, when we don’t know what expect. I can see 3 reasons why people are so afraid of it:
1st one – Fear of the new place and people (strangers). In Warsaw Prison our guests will see exactly the same things and staff like on our website pictures. Any questions don’t hesitate just write to me. Fetlife, via e-mail I will always answer. We are professional. Our guest must be happy and satisfied.
2nd reason - Fear of coming to Poland. On my website people can find  some materials and guidance about my beautiful country. Where is based, which currency is used, type of weather. Poland is an European country with long history. BDSM is legal. English language is popular and common. It can be used almost everywhere. Visitors can pay via credit or debit cards. Warsaw is a capital city and this is business and cultural centre.
3rd reason – Fear of being imprisoned. If someone has no experience in being imprisoned I recommend 24h session for the beginning. Prisoner can check the place, environment, rules. He can also verify experience, fantasies and ideas about Warsaw Prison with reality. Do not be afraid. Just take a risk.

Lady Sas: You have three Officers, but only write about the fees for one or two of them. Why’s that?
Lady Daria:  I cooperate with three Ladies, but during one day session I have only max. 2 Ladies. Why?  - This is due to my experience. As a Pro-Domme in the past I used to have Multi-Mistresses sessions and it was too crowded. Contact with slave was limited. With one Lady Officer we are able to create proper atmosphere.

Orgasm at Warsaw Prison?

Lady Sas:  Is it possible for a prisoner to be allowed to have an orgasm in Warsaw Prison?
Lady Daria: Yes. It is such a kind of possibility, but prisoner must deserved for it. If he’s not good enough, if he won’t obey our rules chances for orgasm are small. Of course, the  way to achieve orgasm does not always have to be necessarily associated only with pleasure. Sometimes it can be very humiliating. Prisoner can be pinned to the pillory and with a time limit must masturbate. We watch him and also we build pressure. Sometimes it is very difficult for them to come. Nice view.

Lady Sas: Are there any plans and ideas you want to add to the Prison?
Lady Daria: I would like to hit with the offer the largest group of people. Not only slaves, but also kinksters. I would like to build strong brand. Good advertising campaign – this is my aim for next couple of months. Internet, SM social network, maybe international trade fairs.

Of course I have plans for another new few things to the studio and I have new ideas, but at the moment it is a future. It would be also nice to buy my own house and land, but at the moment it is just a dream.

Lady Sas: Thank you for taking the time.

  • Find more information here: WP
  • See also the first interview with Lady Daria on my Femdom blog.
  • Learn more about Lady Sas here.

Sonntag, 13. März 2016

3 Wochen keusch – und es geht weiter

Ich führe ja seit einiger Zeit eine öffentlich einsehbare Liste, in die ich eintrage, wann mein Sklave Toytoy kommen durfte. Diese Liste hilft mir, als Schlüsselherrin möglichst unberechenbar zu blieben. Toytoy kann sich nie sicher sein, wenn er zum Höhepunkt kommen darf und wann nicht. Schwierig wird es für ihn auch dadurch, dass er nur an den Wochenenden die Chance hat, aufgesperrt zu werden (CB 6000). Unter der Woche sehen wir uns nicht. Pinkant wird es für ihn auch dadurch, dass die Liste öffentlich einsehbar ist... Ich bekommen ab und zu Hinweise und Wünsche dazu, zum Beispiel von meiner Freundin Lady Judith. Wer sie ein bisschen kennt, weiß, dass sie meistens eine strenge Linie verfolgt und nicht eben eine Fürsprecherin von erlösenden Maßnahmen ist ;-)

Das Spiel mit der Keuschhaltung

Jetzt habe ich die Abstimm-Funktion auf Twitter entdeckt und das mal ausprobiert (hier geht's zu meinem Twitter Profil: @BDSMLadySas). Die Frage, die ich gestellt habe, war, ob Toytoy kommen darf – nachdem er zuletzt am 20.2.2016 durfte, also vor drei Wochen. Aktuell (19 Uhr) haben 22 Personen abgestimmt. Es gibt ein Unentschieden. 11 sind dafür, 11 dagegen. Na, diese Umfrage hat sich doch mal gelohnt! ;-)
Meine kleine Umfrage auf Twitter

Gut, ich hatte heute den Eindruck, dass Toytoy noch nicht am Limit ist. Und darum geht es mir: Toytoy in vielerlei Hinsicht ans Limit bringen. 

Das Schöne an der Keuschhaltung ist, dass der Sklave dadurch die Macht seiner Herrin ständig spürt. Sie ist ständig in seinen Gedanken präsent – selbst dann, wenn sie nicht persönlich anwesend ist. Außerdem steigert es die Hingabe an die Herrin extrem. Der Sklave gibt seine sexuelle Energie auf andere Weise ab. Zum Beispiel durch eine besonders intensive und leidenschaftliche Verehrung der Herrin.

Für die Herrin bringt die Keuschhaltung eine wunderbares Gefühl von Macht und Kontrolle. Wie schon so oft weise ich auch an dieser Stelle darauf hin, wie wichtig es aus medizinischer Sicht ist, dass der Penis regelmäßig steif werden kann. Das kann man wunderbar im Rahmen von Tease- und Denial Spielen machen, also Spielen, bei denen der Sklave wichsen darf, bis er kurz davor ist. Doch dann gibt es keine Erlösung, sondern eine kalte Dusche. Wobei ich aus Erfahrung sagen kann – und das ist wirklich überraschend – dass bei Toytoy nach einigen Tagen Keuschhaltung selbst eine kalte Dusche die Errektion nicht vermindert. Das Duschen sollte man den Sklaven übrigens unbedingt unter Aufsicht durchführen lassen. Man kann ihm auch die Hände hinter dem Rücken fixieren und ihn selbst duschen. Wie gesagt: Der Penis wird durch das kalte Wasser nicht mehr klein, aber es ist gut für die Hygiene. Außerdem macht es mir Spaß...

Vier Wochen keusch

Ich weiß, dass ein Mann seine Bedürfnisse hat. Frauen haben das ja auch. Trotzdem hatte ich heute den Eindruck, dass ich Toytoy noch etwas mehr abverlangen kann. Grausam? Übertrieben? Ein Anfänger wäre mit meiner Entscheidung wahrscheinlich überfordert gewesen. Ein ganzer Monat ohne Orgasmus ist sicher extrem, das gebe ich gerne zu. Aber Toytoy hat ein langes, intensives Sklaventraining hinter sich und hat so reagiert, wie ich es erwartet habe. Als ich ihm gesagt habe, dass er auch heute nicht spritzen darf, hat er "Ja, Herrin" gesagt. Er hat die Muskeln angespannt und tief durchgeatmet. Das macht er oft, wenn er sich zusammennehmen muss. Was ihm dann hilft, ist eine strenge Abreibung. Das lenkt ab. Immerhin durfte er mir heute eine ganze Weile die Füße und High-Heels verwöhnen, das ist auch etwas wert. Ob er nächste Woche erlöst wird? Wer weiß, sicher ist das nicht ;-) 

Lady Sas 

Dienstag, 8. März 2016

BDSM-Clubs, -Partys und Appartements gesucht

Liebe Leserin, lieber Leser,

seit einiger Zeit habe ich eine Liste mit BDSM-Appartements und BDSM-Spielzimmern auf meinem Blog (siehe Menü rechts).

Diese Auflistung möchte ich gern um BDSM-Clubs und BDSM-Partys erweitern. Möglichst natürlich nur die wirklich empfehlenswerten. Dabei sind wir nicht auf Deutschland beschränkt. Gerne nehme ich auch Webseiten zum Beispiel aus Österreich und der Schweiz auf.

Also: Ich freue mich über Tipps und Hinweise an

Ich werde dann auswählen, was mir am besten erscheint. Eine Garantie darauf, dass alle Hinweise berücksichtigt werden können, gibt es nicht. Das steigert aber die Qualität und dürfte somit ganz im Sinne der Leser sein.

Lady Sas

SM-Appartements (aktueller Stand):























Mittwoch, 2. März 2016

Mistress Arella: ruling men's sexual fantasy

Mistress Arella
"Am I cruel?", asks Mistress Arella while whipping a slave. "No, Mistress", answers the slave in the OWK-Video (OWK, Other World Kingdom). Well, I'm not so sure about this answer when I see her signature with the cane... Mistress Arella is a young, beautiful Lady from Czechia and located in Prague. From 2007 to 2010 she was living in London. Mistress Adrella is well-known from her films for OWK, The English Mansion, Woman Worship and some more Femdom websites. She also wrote a book: "The Diary of a Kinky Girl". The combination of beauty, youth and strictness seems to be very attractive for slaves. From her website I learn that Mistress Arella enjoys servitude training, casual (girlfriend) domination, foot worship, small cock humiliation, findom and more. So, let's find out all about this unique Dominatrix. 

Lady Sas: Dear Arella, please tell us your story. How did you come in contact with BDSM? What was your journey?
Mistress Arella:  
I did not really know anything about BDSM till my mid 20s but when I found out through a guy I first met online and later on in person, I naturally wanted to learn more. About a year later I started seeing my first clients. Initially it was mostly for foot fetish sessions but gradually, as I became more skilled, I decided to offer most of the usual domination services too.

Lady Sas: What is it that makes BDSM so fascinating to you?
Mistress Arella:  
Frankly, I usually don´t find pure masochists or dominant people with a fetish very intriguing and I know this is  the case for many other dommes too. For me what makes it all so interesting is the psychological aspect - the willingness to submit, to forgo one´s ego and to fully focus on the dominant partner and her needs. Few people can do that outside of sessions.

Mistress Arella, Lady of the OWK

Lady Sas: You were a Lady of the OWK, the Other Wold Kingdom. Please tell us about this experience. How often did you visit the OKW? What made it so special?
Mistress Arella:  
I´m afraid I haven´t been one of their regular dommes. I only visited the estate for one weekend shortly before they closed down.

Mistress Arella from Prague
Lady Sas: You shot some OWK-Videos. To me OWK-Films look very hard. Was there a kind of Movie Director who told the Mistresses to be extra-merciless? 
Mistress Arella:  
They certainly encouraged the dommes to be harsh but at the end of the day it was really up to the Lady what she wanted to do. That´s the whole idea behind OWK after all.

Lady Sas: You have shot a lot of videos, also for other sites. How does it feel to be filmed during a session? Are there lots of people around on the set?
Mistress Arella:  
Usually it is 1 or 2 people behind the camera and possibly another person who is in charge of the set but that is only true for some of the biggest projects. To me it always felt a bit less relaxed than in a regular session because if something does not quite work out in the filmed scene, you usually get no chance to shoot that part again.

Lady Sas: Did the OWK experience influence you in a way?
Mistress Arella:  
I wouldn´t say so.

Lady Sas: Why was the OWK not successful in your opinion?
Mistress Arella:  
You should really ask the OWK management this question.

OWK-Lady Mistress Arella
Lady Sas: As I have learned from your book „The Diary of a Kinky Girl“ Ruda is the only man you have ever worshiped. How can you explain that?
Mistress Arella:  
When you are a 14 or 15 year old girl, odds are, you will look up to an older, very attractive lad. For me this was just a passing phase related to the very young age and thus lack of life experience. It´s not who I am. I totally enjoy being on top of my male partners in my every day life.

Lady Sas: Almost all slaves adore female feet and High-Heels. Why’s that?
Mistress Arella:  
Well, high heels are a major symbol of female dominance and foot worship is all about adoration, total submission and humilition. These are the main pillars of bdsm after all.

Lady Sas: How does it feel  to be adored like a Princess? Is it difficult to stay on the ground in your everyday life?
Mistress Arella:  
I don´t think it changed me in any profound way. A lot of it is just men's sexual fantasy that has nothing do to with me as a person after all. You really need to keep some distance in this trade and not take things too seriously.

Lady Sas: Please tell us a bit about your hobbies? What do you enjoy?
Mistress Arella:  
I enjoy fine dining, photography, spa and good quality movies that really make me think. I would like to recommend The Duke of Burgundy to those who have not seen this work of art yet:

I also loved to travel with one of my slaves but that is a thing of the past I´m afraid.

Lady Sas: Please tell us about a session you will never forget.
Mistress Arella:  

It is impossible to single out just one session but I have very good memories of a few scenes that took place in the Avalon Residenz Berlin several years ago. The settings, the dynamics, the slave, the inspiration, the time spent outside the dungeon…all was perfect!

Lady Sas: Thank you very much for taking the time, Arella.